Navigating a situation where your child is being bullied can be incredibly distressing. It's a challenging time for both you and your child, and it's crucial to know what steps you can take to provide support and get the help you need. Here is a guide for parents in Sandwell on what to do if your child is being bullied.


First Steps: Listening and Reassuring Your Child
The most important thing you can do is to be there for your child.

Listen Without Judgment: Create a safe space for your child to talk. Listen calmly and let them explain what's been happening without interrupting.

Reassure Them: Let them know that you believe them and that it is not their fault. Reassure them that you are there to help and that together, you will find a solution.

Encourage Them to Speak Up: While you're talking, encourage your child to talk to a trusted adult at school if the bullying happens again. This could be their teacher, a teaching assistant, or another staff member they feel comfortable with.


Working with the School

The school has a duty of care to protect your child and should have a clear anti-bullying policy in place.


Contact the School: The first formal step is to contact the school. It’s best to arrange a meeting with your child's class teacher or the Head of Year. Be prepared with specific details of what has happened, including who was involved, where, and when.

Request a Copy of the Policy: Ask to see a copy of the school's anti-bullying policy. This will outline how they plan to investigate and deal with the situation.

Create a Plan: Work with the school to agree on a clear action plan. This should include what the school will do to address the bullying and a timeline for a follow-up meeting to check on progress.


Getting External Support in Sandwell

If the bullying continues or you are not satisfied with the school's response, there are other organisations that can offer advice and support.

Sandwell Family Hubs: Our local hubs can offer a safe, confidential space for you to talk to a trained professional. We can provide guidance and resources to help you support your child's emotional wellbeing during this difficult time. We can also connect you to local parenting programmes that focus on building confidence and resilience in children.

Sandwell Children's Safeguarding Partnership: SCSP believes that children and young people have the right to be taught in a positive learning environment where everyone has an equal opportunity to achieve socially, emotionally and academically. Click here for more information

Local Counselling Services: Sandwell has a range of counselling services that can help your child process their feelings and develop coping strategies. Click here to view local directory 

National Organisations: You can also contact national charities that specialise in bullying, such as Kidscape or the NSPCC. They have helplines and online resources that provide expert advice for parents.


Remember, you are not alone. There is a network of support available to you and your child in Sandwell. By taking proactive steps and seeking help, you can ensure your child feels safe, supported, and confident.

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