Domestic Abuse

What is domestic abuse?

Domestic abuse, also known as intimate partner violence (IPV), is a pattern of controlling and abusive behaviour in any relationship with a partner, family member or carer to gain or maintain power and control over another intimate partner. It can include physical violence, sexual violence, emotional abuse, economic abuse, and psychological abuse.

Types of domestic abuse

There are many different types of domestic abuse, including:

• Physical violence: This includes any act of physical force that is used to harm, control, or intimidate a partner. It can include hitting, kicking, biting, shoving, choking, burning, or using weapons.
• Sexual violence: This includes any unwanted sexual contact, including rape, sexual assault, or sexual harassment.
• Emotional abuse: This includes any behaviour that is intended to control, manipulate, or frighten a partner. It can include name-calling, insults, threats, humiliation, isolation, and stalking.
• Economic abuse: This includes any behaviour that is used to control a partner's finances. It can include preventing a partner from working, taking control of their money, or making them financially dependent.
• Psychological abuse: This includes any behaviour that is intended to undermine a partner's sense of self-worth. It can include gaslighting, making threats, blaming, and controlling.

Signs of domestic abuse

If you are concerned that you or someone you know is experiencing domestic abuse, there are some signs to look for. These include:

• Physical injuries: This could include bruises, cuts, burns, or other injuries that are not accidental.
• Changes in behaviour: This could include changes in mood, appetite, sleep patterns, or social interactions.
• Fear: If you or someone you know is afraid of their partner, this is a sign of domestic abuse.
• Isolation: If your partner is trying to isolate you from your friends, family, or support network, this is a sign of domestic abuse.
• Controlling behaviour: If your partner is trying to control your finances, your movements, or your relationships, this is a sign of domestic abuse.

How to get help

If you are experiencing domestic abuse, there are many resources available to help you. These include:

If you ever feel like you are in immediate danger please call 999

Black Country Women’s Aid 0121 553 0090 for more information click here.

Refuge 24/7 helpline call 0808 2000 247 for more information click here.

National Centre for Domestic Violence call 0800 970 2070, Text NCDV to 6077, email office@ncdv.org.uk and for more information click here

Your local police department: Your local police department can help you file a report and get a restraining order.

It is important to remember that you are not alone. There are people who can help you. If you are experiencing domestic abuse, please reach out for help.